Well, no one can expect you to like or love spiders, but you don't have to hate or fear them.
Just let Riz have spiders for pets, and go on from there.
It would really surprise you just how many people keep pet spiders, I do, and they are even free in my place.
it's ok to say you don't want to get near the spider.
about this situation I like riz just not the spider
