Are there any awkward silences? Sometimes they feign civility, while harbouring a deep resentment, which builds until one of them eventually loses its temper, blurting out hurtful things it doesn't really mean. Relationship counselling could help if you think things are going this way, keep an eye out for little tell-tale signs. They say a swan can break a man's arm with one flap of its wing, but a female bunny can break a male bunny's heart with just a glance.